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New Grandparents
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| Although you have plenty of parenting experience, grand parenting is a
whole new ball game. As a new grandparent, at times you might even find
your role more complex than when you were ‘just’ a parent! Give it time -
as your child begins to get comfortable as new parent, you too will find
your niche as a grandparent. And as life expectancies continue to
increase, you will hopefully be a grandparent for a long, long time. It’s
time to prepare for your new role and get ready to play an important part
in your grandchild’s life! |
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| As many of the immediate responsibilities of raising a child are not
yours, you will find that being a grandparent can be an entirely more
relaxing experience than parenting was. This is just one of the many
things that makes being a grandparent so wonderful – the pressure is off!
While parents are the main disciplinarians and decision makers, the
grandparent’s role is to be supportive and act as “back-up”. Keep this
difference in mind and not only will you create a strong, loving
relationship with your grandchild, you will also eliminate one of the main
conflicts that arises between parents and grandparents: grandparents that
overstep the boundaries. |
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| Though you aren’t a disciplinarian or main decision maker in your
grandchild’s life, there are many other ways you can make a positive
impression and form a unique, lasting bond. Simply spending time with your
grandchild, especially one-on-one, is the most important way to bond.
While family gatherings are great, it is important to make an effort to
spend time alone with your grandchild. When you are together, show your
grandchild that you are interested in them and what is going on in their
life, and share what is going on in yours. Try to always remain a loving
and non-judgmental presence in your grandchild’s life. As time passes you
will develop a unique relationship, and will be sought out as a refuge and
confidant through all your grandchild’s growing pains. |
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| Maintaining a good relationship with your grandchild’s parents is an
important way to be a positive role model in their life. Your
grandchildren will look to your interactions as an example, so always show
them how you maintain a positive relationship with family. |
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| Sharing a hobby with your grandchild is a great way to form lasting
memories and spend time together. Think of something age appropriate that
they might take an interest in – knitting, baking, gardening, or a more
unique hobby you might have. A shared hobby will be a huge asset as
grandchildren grow and go through some less talkative periods. Being able
to enjoy an activity and continue your history of working together will
keep you close without having a conversation. |
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