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Methods parents are using to raise mini multilingual communicators

Whether you have made the decision to raise your children multilingual, or you already have a multilingual home, congratulations! You are well on the way to giving your children a great personal and professional Head Start.
 
The next question most parents ask is ‘What is the best method to use to raise a multilingual child’? This question is highly individual, and depends on your family. Is your family multilingual? Do you and your partner communicate in one of your native languages, or in a third language? Do you live in a country where the official language differs from what you speak at home? As you begin your research, you will see that there are many methods you can use with great success. Being consistent and understanding with your child, and choosing a method that best fits your situation are the most important things to keep in mind as you embark on your multilingual adventure.
 
First, let’s take a look at the four most common groups a potential multilingual family would fall into.
 
· A monolingual family living in a same-language environment who recognize the value of speaking multiple languages. This could be a family living in an English speaking country, with both parents speaking only English, but send their children to French immersion school.
   
· A monolingual family living in a different-language environment. An example of this would be an Italian family where both parents speak only Italian, but who are moving to France for work reasons.
   
· Bilingual family in same-language environment. This family would have parents who each speak a different language, and live in a country where one of these languages is the majority language outside the home as well. For example a Spanish mother and English speaking father who live in England.
   
· Multilingual family in different-language environment. This could be a Mandarin speaking mother and French-speaking father who are raising their children in Japan. Two languages are spoken in the home, and a third, different language is used outside the home.
 
Each of these situations could use a different method for raising multilingual children. These methods are sometimes called a ‘Language System.’ Take a look at some of the methods outlined below and decide what is right for your family.
 
 

One Parent One Language Approach (OPOL)

This is one of the most widely used methods. This method is used by families that are already multilingual – where each parent speaks a different language. The parent’s languages do not have to be native to them – as long as the parent is fluent, and commits to speaking only in the given language with their child, a non-native language can successfully be passed on. In fact many parents will decide to pass on their own second language to their child. Perhaps because they feel it will be more useful, or because their partner shares their native language, and they have decided that the partner will be the one to pass on the native language while they will communicate in the second language.
 
Whatever your situation, you must decide what language each parent will speak with the child, and be very consistent. If you speak with your child in Spanish, and your husband uses Italian, for example, it is recommended that you not respond if your child asks you for something in Italian. Ask them in your language to repeat what they said, and they will catch on. When each parent speaks to the child in a different language, the child is able to easily differentiate between the two, and should pick both up simultaneously.
 
 

Minority Language at Home (MLAH), or Community vs. Family Language

With this method, all members of the family speak the same language together at home, and a different langue is spoken outside the home. The family language spoken at home does not have to be the native language of the parents, but they must be consistent and always use the chosen method! If you decide to use the MLAH system, your child’s exposure to the outside language will be somewhat limited until they reach a certain age (usually around 5, when they can begin daycare or kindergarten). Until this time, you will probably notice the family language will be stronger (don’t worry!), but once exposure to the outside language begins, your child should quickly catch up. As your child grows and begins to make friends and interact more outside the home, you will need to emphasize the importance of maintaining the family language. Taking family trips to the country where your home-language is the native tongue, as well as having strong family and community ties are two helpful ways of maintaining your family language.
 
 

Other Language Systems

There are other systems that may work, but they often require a more concerted effort on the part of the parents. Some families decide to speak one language during the week, and another on weekends, or one in the morning, another in the afternoon. These will also work, but might be hard to stick with. Remember that teaching your child multiple languages is at least a four year commitment, with continued maintenance after that.
 
As your family grows, your situation might change, or you might change countries, so it is important to pick a system that is going to be easy to follow and allow for flexibility. Whatever system you choose, stick with it, and remember that consistency is most important. Your investment of time and energy will pay off, and the head start that you are giving your child will benefit them for the rest of their life!
 
There are many references on the internet to help you in your journey to raise multilingual children. Here are some to get you started:
 
http://multilingualchildren.org
 
http://bilingualbaby.eu
 
http://www.mcgill.ca/sis-students/mcl   The McGill Multilingual Children’s library aims to provide families with books in a variety of languages to aid children in the Montreal are with learning and maintaining multiple languages.
 
http://multilingualkids.ca    A Toronto-based education center that offers programs in Spanish, French, Italian and Chinese for parents interested in providing their children with a multilingual instruction.
 
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